Have I ever told you the story of how I use to be a people pleaser? Yes I did? Okay great, so we can skip that part of the story. But incase you have no clue what a people pleaser is here is my personal definition:
A People Pleaser: A person who is willing to sacrifice their own happiness for others’ enjoyment.
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This past month I have been trying out the new hair care line by Alba Botanica, which is paraben free and sulfate free hair products. I have been using he Alba Botanica Plumeria Shampoo and the Alba Botanicia Mango Conditioner together with a space of three days in between washes. Each are around $10.50 and can be found at most local CVS or grocery store.
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This is probably the most personal post I could come up with, but it is also the most relevant. So here it goes, what is love really? What does it mean to feel loved, be loved?
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Continue reading Love? Umm, Can Some One Explain This.
Lately I have been enjoying the book The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin. It details how she strives to find more happiness through taking on different routines and outlooks on life. One of the greatest points that I have taken away from the book so far is the saying “It is fun to fail.” Let me explain.
As a perfectionist it is definitely not fun to fail, in fact that is my biggest fear! I have hated any type of criticism, or public mistake to the point that it has stifled my chances of really growing and reaching my fullest potentional. My vocabulary was riddle with says of “Oh I can’t do that.” Or “I don’t have enough time to get this done.” What I was really thinking was “Oh, I can’t do that… perfectly the first time so I am not going to try.” And “I don’t have enough time to get this done…perfectly the way I know you and I would want it.” You see what I mean. Perfectionism is crippling.
Continue reading “It is fun to fail” and all the ways that little saying has changed my life
I can’t do that because I don’t have enough experience in that field…
I will start monday…
I am not skinny enough to wear that…
No one will ever read or listen to what I have to say anyway, I am just not good enough…
I can’t submit my resume yet, it is’t perfect…
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Every Sunday night I’m a total schizo. Part of me feels sad that I wont be spending the day with the kids tomorrow and the other part is looking forward to going to the office and doing the professional person thing. Depending on the Sunday, one part or the other may dominate but it’s never fully one way or the other.
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Remember all those Hollywood movies where the cute toddler is carrying around their favorite “blankie” or teddy? That one item that made them feel safe and loved, the item that mom couldn’t leave home without because her little precious bundle of joy was so attached to it. The toddler would hug it tight, kiss it or drag it behind him as he walked down the street holding mommy’s hand. It was such a picture perfect image, the baby holding the raggedy bear or dogie or worn out blanket tight against his chubby cheek as he fell asleep in his crib like an angel. Ahhh, isn’t that adorable…
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“Read the book!” “Read the BOOK!” My son keeps asking me in his very loud outside voice. As he’s asking me, he’s also poking me with the book. After having spent most of the day running errands, picking up after the kids, making multiple meals and squeezing in some work, I should be ready to spend some quality time with my son. But I’m not. I’m just tired. “Not now, sweetie,” I say softly with a hint of frustration, “maybe later.” My eyelids feel heavy and all I want to do is just lie down on my bed.
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Within the last 7 years or so, I learned some things about me and exercise. One, I love it. Two, I hate it. There have been many years where I have been addicted to exercise, where I once convince a sales person to give me 3 months of free gym use. And on the flip side, I have also completely banned it for nearly a year while working at a gym. It has been a roller coaster of finding out the perfect balance. Here is what I’ve come up with.
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Who knew you can get by on so little in the beautiful beach city of Santa Monica?
Apparently there are more broke college (or post college) students here than I had imagine. Or I am just insanely good at finding really great deals. Either way, here is what I have learned.
Note: This article turned into more of a satire than anything else, but bare with me, you may still get something out of it.
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